Tag: how to find your purpose
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What is it that your purpose could possibly be? Notice if an answer immediately comes up and how quickly you judge and then dismiss it. Judgement is the biggest thing that blocks you from knowing. When you judge it, your brain sees it as a problem so it rejects it. You judge your ability to…
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What does it mean to be fulfilled? Fulfilled is a feeling of satisfaction or happiness. I want to highlight that fulfilled is a feeling. It’s important to understand that feelings are created by how we think. When we are unfulfilled, it means that we are thinking thoughts that make us feel the opposite of happy…
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At the core of who we are, we ultimately just want to be happy. The reason we do ANYTHING is because we think it will make us happy. I recently read that 50% of our happiness comes from our temperament, i.e., our personality. It’s genetic. Only 10% of our happiness comes from our circumstances –…
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Many clients come to me with several passions that they have and they want to know what to do about it. For one client, she wants to be a performer, she wants to run a non-profit to mentor young women, and she also bakes specialty cakes. She has all these passions but she flip flops…
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Everyday, I would put my big girl panties on and get up and go to work. I would show up with a smile on my face, do my job, and go home. Then, I would get home, be a wife, be a mom, get ready for bed, then do it all again the next day.…
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It seems like it’s easier to believe in someone else than it is to believe in yourself. Think about someone you believe in. You know without a shadow of doubt that they will accomplish whatever they set out to do. If they say they’re going to do something, you know it’s as good as done.…
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My daughter and I watched Unstoppable, which is a documentary about Bethany Hamilton. If you don’t know who she is, she is a professional surfer who got her arm bitten off by a shark. Bethany had grown up in a surfing family so she’d surfed her entire life. From about eight years old, she knew…
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We’ve been conditioned to think that once you get to be a certain age, certain opportunities are no longer available to you. You know where that came from? The humans. One day someone just said it and it was probably based on their own particular situation. The same way that you can try learning to…
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One thing that holds us back from following our dreams or walking in our purpose is when other people don’t understand, support, or even want what we’re doing. We think because other people don’t get it, it must not be what we’re supposed to be doing. Nothing could be further from the truth. Everybody won’t…
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Once you have found your purpose and are ready to move towards it or even if you’re still figuring it out, it’s important to give your brain some guidance, some direction. Otherwise, it will stay on autopilot, doing what it’s always done. You’ll want to set some goals for yourself. I like to set goals…