☠️ Your people not reaching out? Putting this in your messaging is probably scaring them away.
It’s understandable why you’d want to include it because it truly is the answer to many of our clients’ problems.
When I ask new clients what they want to help their people with, they tend to say something about helping them process their emotions or “feel their feelings.”
Let me tell you – 𝐍𝐨𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬, 𝐂𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡. 🙅🏾♀️
I’m a coach and even EYE don’t want to feel my feelings.
(But I will because I know the value in doing so, but your people – unless they’re coaches – probably won’t know that yet.)
What you want to focus on instead is what’s on the other side of them feeling their feelings:
🥰 𝗪𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐝𝐚𝐲?
🥰 𝗪𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐨?
🥰 𝗪𝐡𝐨 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞?
Talk about that in your messaging and leave the “coach speak” for your private sessions.
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